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Love Language Test

Do you feel loved through words, time, gifts, help or touch? Rate 10 statements to find your primary love language.

  • 10 statements
  • Your primary love language
  • Your score for all five
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The five love languages

  • Words of affirmation
  • Quality time
  • Receiving gifts
  • Acts of service
  • Physical touch

The idea comes from Gary Chapman's 1992 book The 5 Love Languages.

Do love languages actually work?

They're a useful way to talk about what you need. Research hasn't found strong support for the claim that matching love languages makes couples happier, and many people appreciate all five.

Use it with your partner

Compare results, then combine with the Attachment Style Test and Relationship Test.

Frequently asked questions

What is the most common love language?

Quality time is often reported as the most common.

Can you have two love languages?

Yes. Your scores show how close the top two are.

Can your love language change?

It can shift with life stage and circumstances.