Cost of Dating Calculator
Dinners, drinks, rideshares and that app subscription. Add it up and find out what love costs you, before you find it.
- Monthly and yearly dating spend
- Cost per date
- A breakdown of where it goes
How much does a first date cost?
It depends on where you live and what you do. Coffee or a walk can cost under $20; dinner and drinks in a big city can easily pass $100. Many people now suggest a cheap first date and save the nice dinner for the second.
Who pays on a first date?
Surveys find most people still expect the person who asked to pay on the first date, and many couples split after that. Once you're together, the Split Bills Calculator can keep it fair.
The bigger picture
Compare your spending with the Cost of Being Single, or look ahead to the Engagement Ring Budget and Wedding Cost.
Frequently asked questions
How much should I spend on a first date?
Enough to be comfortable, not enough to resent it if there's no second date. $20–$60 covers most first dates.
Are dating app subscriptions worth it?
They can increase visibility, but profile photos matter more.
Should we split the bill?
That's up to you. Offering is always good manners.