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Signs She Likes You

Polite and interested can look similar. Here's how to tell the difference.

Try the calculators

Tools that go with this guide.

Crush CalculatorDoes your crush like you back?Rizz MeterRate your flirting game.

The clearest signs she likes you

  • She keeps the conversation going and asks follow-up questions
  • She makes time for you, even when she's busy
  • She laughs at your jokes, even the bad ones
  • She remembers things you said
  • She suggests plans or says yes to yours
  • She touches your arm or shoulder
  • She introduces you to friends

Polite vs. interested

Polite people answer questions; interested people ask them. Consistency is the key: interest shows up again and again, not once.

Next steps

Test your odds with the Crush Calculator and your charm with the Rizz Meter. If it's been months with no label, take the Situationship Test.

Frequently asked questions

How can you tell if a girl likes you over text?

She replies, asks questions, and sometimes texts first.

Is she just being friendly?

Look for consistency and whether she makes time for you one-on-one.

Should I ask her out?

If several signs are there, yes. Clear beats clever.