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Green Flag Test

The opposite of a red flag test. Count the healthy signs and see if you found a keeper.

  • 10 green flags
  • A green flag score
  • Why each one matters
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Green flags in a relationship

A green flag is a behavior that signals a healthy partner. The most important ones are consistency, respect for boundaries, accountability and kindness to everyone, not just you.

Why "calm" is a green flag

If you're used to chaos, calm can feel boring at first. People with an anxious attachment style sometimes confuse anxiety with chemistry. A partner who makes you feel safe is a good sign.

Check the other side

Run the Red Flag Test too, then take the full Relationship Test.

Frequently asked questions

What are green flags in a man or woman?

Consistency, kindness, accountability and respect for your boundaries.

Can you have green and red flags at the same time?

Yes. Most people have both. Look at the overall pattern.

Are green flags boring?

They can feel that way if you're used to drama. Healthy usually feels calm.