Calculator · Love & compatibility

FLAMES Calculator

The game everyone played in the back of a notebook. Enter two names and let the letters decide.

  • The real FLAMES method
  • Shows the letter count
  • No notebook needed
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How to play FLAMES

  • Write both names and cross out every letter they share
  • Count the letters left over
  • Count through F-L-A-M-E-S by that number, crossing out where you land
  • Keep going until one letter is left

What FLAMES stands for

Friends, Lovers, Affectionate, Marriage, Enemies and Siblings. Some versions use "Admirers" or "Engaged" for A and E.

More name games

Try the Love Calculator for a percentage, or the Friendship Calculator if FLAMES just friend-zoned you.

Frequently asked questions

Is FLAMES accurate?

Only as accurate as a notebook game can be.

Should I use full names?

Traditionally, yes. First names alone give a different result.

What does the A in FLAMES mean?

Usually Affectionate, sometimes Admirers.