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Situationship Test

More than friends, less than official, and somehow it's been eight months. Find out what you're actually in.

  • 8 questions
  • Situationship or relationship
  • How to get clarity
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Situationship meaning

A situationship is a romantic or sexual connection that hasn't been defined as a relationship. There's intimacy and regular contact, but no commitment, no labels and usually no long-term plans.

Signs you're in a situationship

  • Plans are vague and last-minute
  • You haven't met their friends or family
  • They avoid the "what are we" talk
  • Consistency comes and goes

How to get out of a situationship

Ask directly what they want. If the answer is vague, that's the answer. People with an anxious attachment style often find situationships especially draining. Check for red flags too.

Frequently asked questions

How long do situationships last?

There's no rule, but many fade within a few months unless someone asks for more.

Can a situationship become a relationship?

Yes, if both people want it and someone says so.

Is a situationship bad?

Not if both people truly want the same thing. Trouble starts when one of you wants more.