Relationship Test
Ten questions on trust, communication and fun, the things relationship researchers say matter most. Answer for how things are, not how you wish they were.
- 10 questions
- A relationship health score
- What to work on next
What makes a relationship healthy?
Decades of research, including John Gottman's work on couples, point to the same things: trust, respect, handling conflict without contempt, and still liking each other. This test asks about each.
Dig deeper
If your score was low, the Toxic Relationship Test and Red Flag Test look for specific problems. If it was high, check your strengths with the Green Flag Test.
Your attachment style and love language also shape how you connect.
Frequently asked questions
What is a relationship calculator?
A quiz like this that scores how your relationship is going. The two tools were merged into this one.
Is this test a diagnosis?
No. It's a starting point for a conversation.
Should my partner take it too?
Yes. Comparing answers is often more useful than the scores.